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Homestead Christmas December 23, 2015

We haven’t always celebrated Christmas.  In fact, it has only been in recent years that we even got a small tree.  A local shop owner saw our daughter admiring the little artificial tree. She and I  talked about how pretty it was, not knowing that the owner overheard us. As we left, he came out carrying a box.  He said that we had forgotten something.  To our delight, he placed the tree in our trunk.

The main reason for not celebrating was due to the holiday being so commercial. It was all about the gifts, not the religious story.  People routinely go into debt trying to buy the perfect gift.  It just didn’t feel right.

After having the kids, we made the decision to celebrate.  The compromise for us was that we limit the gifts.  We also teach the kids to make their gifts.  This one simple thing helps teach children to give of their time and talents to others.

The little ones are ages 9 and 7 years old this season.  With a little guidance, Little Miss chose a project to make for Daddy.  She wanted to make him something that he can take onto the truck with him.  It was a simple project to complete but very useful.  Little Man needed more help with his gift to Daddy.  Mostly due to his lack of fine motor development.  He had fun with it though.

Giving homemade gifts whenever possible has become a family tradition.  We also limit the number of gifts.  In doing this, the kids are much more appreciative of what they receive.

The Christmas tree has a few secondhand ornaments.  Gradually, we are adding handmade ornaments to it each year.  A new thing added to the tree this year also was battery powered little lights.  We found those at Hobby Lobby.

Having a simple Christmas has been a blessing. We can focus on the meaning of the holiday without all the stress and hoopla that other families face.  We can use it as a time to serve others and give of ourselves in remebrance of Christ giving of Himself for us.  It is also an opportunity to teach the kids that it isn’t all about than, but learn to enjoy the giving to others.

I love how we celebrate Christmas. It is so much more peaceful and enjoyable for our family.  I pray that others can enjoy the holiday as that celebrate with their families.

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Care Packages for the Homeless November 29, 2014

Filed under: family,holidays,serving others — ourprairiehome @ 8:30 pm
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One of the aspects of the holiday celebration that my husband and I have always wanted to make a part of our family traditions is to serve others.  As mentioned in previous posts, we are doing that through teaching our children to make their gifts instead of simply buying them.  This gives them an opportunity to share their time and talents with others.  Now that they are getting older, we want to step it up a notch and take the idea of serving others a little further.

Today, I found a great blog post that I wanted to share with you.  Amy Allen Clark, the founder of MomAdvice website shared this idea.  Making care packages for the homeless or those in need.  Not only are these a great idea for giving to the homeless, but think of the times when there is a natural disaster?  Maybe a homeless shelter?  What about kids who are entering into the foster care system?  In the case of foster care kids, they often leave there homes with nothing but the clothes on their backs.  At best, they may have a few changes of clothing but very little else.  With alterations to the basic supply list Amy presents on her blog, you can customize these bags for any situation.  I am even thinking of how these can be made up to hand out to young campers at the church camp our daughter attends each spring and fall.

Picture Owned by Amy Allen Clark at  MomAdvice.com

Picture Owned by Amy Allen Clark at MomAdvice.com

I strongly encourage you to take a look at Amy’s blog post, How to Make a Care Package for the Homeless.  Even if you cannot make them this year in time for Christmas, you can make up a few at a time to hand out over the winter.  Come summer, you can add things like sunscreen to the packages.  The ideas are endless.  The teaching opportunities for our children are priceless.